Compassion Chronicles

  • What does “Being Present” Mean?

    What does “Being Present” Mean?

    Being mindful or present is a simple thing, but it might not be a natural thing. It is being where you are, in your body. Noticing what is happening only, not what might happen. Without realizing it, we often get in this state of presence when we are engulfed in an activity, feel happy, or… Read more

  • I Wish I Could Give All I’m Longing to Give

    I’ve been having a bit of deja vu with several of my clients recently- they have independently made similar statements about their belief that we are put here to help other people. I think this is one of those universal human desires- to be productive, to make a difference, to matter, to be a part Read more

  • Challenging Unhealthy Thoughts

    My way of approaching unhealthy thoughts and beliefs is in line with mindfulness-based cognitive therapy. But what do all those words mean? Mindfulness is the skill of observing your mind without judging it, and becoming present. The cognitive part is what addresses specific unhealthy thought patterns or beliefs. Together, they are a very powerful combo Read more

  • Reflections on The Book of Forgiving

    The Book of Forgiving– The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World, by Desmond and Mpho Tutu is a book I have had on my shelf for many years. I would read a few chapters, and then put it back. Not because it wasn’t good, quite the contrary. It’s because as I read about Read more

  • Finding the Right Mental Health Support: A Flowchart Overview

    I had someone reach out to me last week, just calling to figure out what kind of mental health professional they needed, and it inspired me to make this flowchart. I agree it is confusing to know the difference between a counselor, psychologist and psychiatrist. While this flowchart is very simplistic for ease, there is Read more

  • When My Heart Gets Too Heavy.

    Tragedies locally and abroad have really gotten ahold of me lately. I found myself wanting to express how I deal when my heart gets too heavy. Read more